November 13th—it’s my Dad’s birthday
today. How I wish I had a few hours to spend with him and learn who he
really was. He’s been in heaven for many years now. When I was
younger, he was my hero. I could run to his lap and get a hug. He was
not an openly affectionate man; that was just his personality. But, he
took care of all six of us on one income. He travelled all the time in
his job. I never appreciated how hard it was for him to be away from
home.
Dad’s father and mother escaped
from Estonia before Russia invaded it. They landed near Boston,
Massachusetts. Dad grew up in a home with stone and mud floors—I’ve
only located one picture of him by his house. His mother died in a barn
fire when he was only three. Later, the woman who moved in as a house
keeper married my grandfather, but apparently from what I have been able
to put together, it was a marriage of convenience at that time.
My
Dad was proud to have been accepted into Massachusetts Institute of
Technology. He started out to be an engineer. He was gifted in drawing
and designing. WWII broke out, and he became an officer candidate in
what was then the Armed Air Force. He served in military intelligence.
Mom and Dad met at a Lawrence Welk dance at the Arragon Hotel in
Chicago. It must have been instant love. They married while he was in
training in Iowa, on an icy day in February 1943. It was the day he got
his Lieutenant’s wings. (I always thought it was funny later that he
could not remember his anniversary date.)
Dad
stayed in the Air Force through the Korean Conflict. He retired as a
Captain. Later, he became an inspector and insurance writer for a
building casualty insurance company out of Boston. He rose to the top
of his ranks in civilian life, too. Company meetings were always held
in the New England area, and as children, he incorporated our vacations
with his drives up there.
Dad grew
the biggest tomato plants in the neighborhood. It always amazed me.
Strawberries lined our fences. When he retired, his yard was mowed
twice a week. The white fence was always in repair and painted. He
joined the Golden Kiwanis group and among other civic jobs, helped Santa
write letters back to young children.
Dad
& Mom had three sons and one daughter. Out of that grew three
granddaughters and four grandsons. He got to know we all married and
started out great lives.
If you
take one thing from this, please ask your Dad what his dreams were.
Spend time just talking. And know that as important our Dads are in our
lives, when they raise families in Christ, they are giving us the
ultimate in Fathers.
Happy Birthday, Dad.
Love, Carol
Carol Pigg
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